We will say pass

The family is planning to have our summer escapade away from the city this summer, just like we did last year.  The plans are almost done and we are all excited about it.  I have search of the place of where we go and have our summer escapade.  However, an unexpected turn of events happens in the family.  The younger brother is having problems with his married life.  His wife left him and took their son.   His mind is confused and he is so sad at the moment.  He cannot be with us because of the situation he is having right now.

Since the brother is cannot go with us, we will say pass for the planned escapade.  We cannot afford to enjoy and have fun while the brother is mourning because of what his wife did.  Instead we will be having a family outing in the nearest resort in the city.  It is summer and we wanted to soak in the water and swim.  This is happens once in a year.  The kids are waiting for this and always asking for it.  We wish that the brother will be going with us.  He needs to go out to relax his mind temporarily.  We are hoping that he will get over from this situation.

Foam for knee pads

I like watching sports, especially basketball and volleyball. The sports are very much exciting and entertaining to me. Lately I am hooked to women volleyball league here in the country. I sometimes I dream that I am one of them. Haha! It is really entertaining seeing the girls diving for the ball to keep it alive. That is why they are wearing knee pads to protect their knees. Seeing the knee pads get me an idea to make knee pads and sell it. Since this summer there will be a summer sports fest in the village, I will be selling knee pads for the participants. I will just buy foam sheets for knee pads and other materials needed to make knee pads. And then search online on how to make it perfectly. Also, I can post it online who knows people will get interested and order from me.

Moving on

I have mentioned in my previous post that the brother is struggling on his marriage life.  His wife left him and took their four months old son.  I can see the pain on his face, he feels like crying but he tried not to show it to us.  It was the second time his wife left, so the pain he felt isn’t easy.  He gave his wife a second chance but still left him to be with other guy.  It was the painful experience in his life.  They just married seven months ago, and now their married life is broke.

We have comfort him, and do our best as family to ease the pain the brother felt.  He slowly coping it up, though sometimes we caught him staring from nowhere.  I know it will take some time to fully recover; we will always be here for him and to make him realize that it is not his lost.  One day he will be seeing his son, we will just pray for that time to come soon.  It is time to move on, continue living and planning for the future.  As family, we will support him and help him to success so that his wife will feel sorry for what she did to him.  Move on brother, let go and enjoy the life ahead.

Back to work

After experiencing a very difficult situation on his married life, their put up printing business is shut down.  The brother decided to go back to the city to unwind and relax while his wife is going somewhere.  I always told the younger brother not to dwell with it.  Instead he has to work hard, go back to work for his son.  It is not his loss because his son is with him.  Even though his wife is cheating on him, he is still open to accept her and give her a second chance.  We all deserve a second chance so he is giving it to his wife.  His wife comes back and as we expected, he accepted her without any questions.

They are starting over again, in their abode in our village.  Because their printing business has shut down, they are back to scratch.  I am sad he did not listen to me not to forgive his wife that easy, but I am glad that he did listen to me to get a job to support his son.  I have heard that he is back to work now.  Though we are not in good terms, I wish him the best in life.  I wish that he made the right decision in accepting his wife.  I also hope that his wife will not cheat him again.  I hope trust and honesty are present in their married life.