What’s the Dealio?

I always heard people who are sad because they are single and their Christmas will be as cold as ever.  What is the dealio?  I do not understand why this people making it a big deal.  It is really important to have special someone in our life during this time of season?  Indeed it is good to love and be loved and to share this to this special person. 
I have been single all my life until the age of 30.  I celebrate Christmas with my family and friends.  I am proud to say that I am happy being single and I enjoyed the life of being single.  I do not bother myself to think that I should have someone with me to celebrate this season.  I always tell my friends who are feeling sad because they are still single that enjoy life because life is beautiful.  God will give us someone we deserves in due time and in the right time.  There are so many reasons to be happy than to be sad in this time of season.  We just have to count our blessings no matter how small it is if we are going to join it together it is indeed a big blessings that we forgot to appreciate. 
In this season of giving, sharing and loving we need to celebrate it with our family, friends and those people who we cares and loves us.  Let us not waste it on thinking that it is sad because no special someone with us.  While we are thinking of when will our special someone arrives, there is other human being also thinks the same way.  We just have to be patient and wait till we meet along the way and cross our pathways.  Happy Holidays Everyone!

3 Responses to “What’s the Dealio?”

  1. anne says:

    Very well said girl!

  2. carinamodella says:

    what i miss of being single is the freedom of doing anything without any restrictions. but there is no other thing comparable for the joy of having your own family.

  3. Mel Avila Alarilla says:

    There are people whose happiness is dependent on having someone to love them and care for them especially in special moments like Christmas. They feel empty without someone to celebrate Christmas with. Theirs are the lonely and cold Christmas. Thanks for the post. God bless you all always.