Before I always tell friends that it is okay to be friends after the break-up beside once in their life they were lovers. I thought it was that easy that is why my stand to be friends after the break-up is fine without even knowing how they broke-up and their pain. They always told me I do not know what they are going through that is why it is easy for me to say. I refused to agree with them for a reason that I am a woman too. I know I do not have the same experienced like them, but I know the feeling of being hurt based on the novels that I have read.
Indeed, you can never can tell the true feeling until you were on the same shoes. I know the feeling now and I can now says that it is never really easy to be friends after the break-up. Yes, someone has the guts to break my heart. It really hurts me but I have accepted that life is like that. Sometimes we have to put an end to thing that is no longer working. I am mad, yes and I guess it is normal to every human beings. He did offer a good friendship with me but I refused to accept it. To me there is no used for us to be friends after all. I am not being bitter but I guess that is the best thing to do to finally put an end. No more communication and no more Hi’s and Hello’s. I appreciate your approach but “No Thanks”.