Last week at the wake of my late cousin while talking to the other cousins, they open up the topic about me and my other cousin misunderstanding. It has been five years now since the misunderstanding incident occur. We have not talked to each other since then. I did not bother to settle the things between us because I think it is useless knowing the attitude of my cousin. I decided to just ignore her every time we see each other on birthdays, fiestas, and other events. It is not easy I must say because we used to be good friends before. It is just a pity quarrel that turns out into a big issue.
Anyways, my other cousin suggested that I should make the first move instead so we can move on and we forgive and forget. To be honest, I have thought about it many times already and even consulted my family. But they said no to me. The wounds in their hearts is not healed yet. I guess it needs more time to heal and finally will forgive and forget. Only God knows what is gonna happen in the near future. I will surely think about doing the first move of coming to hear and patched things but first have to consider my family’s opinion because they were hurt too by her words.