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Life is a world of challenges

We do encounter lots of difficulties and trials in life.  It makes life more challenging. Though it makes it wants to give up especially when the trials are too heavy for us to take.  We sometimes asking why it happens to us?  But we must know that those difficulties won’t be given to us if we cannot handle it well.  Burdens makes us wiser and stronger.  We just must believe in ourselves that we will get back and surpass whatever trials and difficulties we are facing. And most importantly, we should keep the faith, continue praying and call God’s guidance always.

My brother is facing another trial now.  His second daughter was admitted in the hospital last Monday.  I feel his pain and feel so sorry for him.  He even said that he is the unluckiest person on earth.  It is not good to say it, but I understand that he said it out of desperation and frustration.  I know that my brother is a strong person.  He can handle whatever trials comes in his way.  But just recently, he just felt it is too much.  As a family, we extend our arms for him.  Give him comfort and encouraging words for him to not lost faith and believe in God.  Everything happens for a reason.  Maybe it is God’s way of testing him on how long the brother will be able to handle it and his faith to Him.  To my brother, do not give up and continue moving on.  We are here for you.  And will help you as much and we could.

So happy that we are okay now

My cousin and I have not talked each other for six years now.  It was just a pity quarrel that turned into a big issue because of our pride.  I must admit I did wrong to her but not as big and she did to me.  But I did not dwell on it.  I do not mind it before because I thought it will just die naturally however, she made the big issue out of it.  That is why our misunderstanding lasts for years.  I really wanted to talk to her and ask for forgiveness but refrain from doing it because of my family.  My cousin is the kind of person that will make you a lesser person.  This was all from the past.  My cousin and I are okay now.

My cousin and I are okay now.  And I so happy that my prayers were answered.  We did not talk about it anymore.  We just talk to each other like nothing bad happens before.  It is not good to bring back the sad and bad things that happen in the past.  The feeling is great knowing that we are okay now and we becoming friends again.  Though there are awkward moments when we talk.  Hopefully, we get over with this awkward feelings.  I wish that we will bring brack the closeness we had before.  Not sooner because we are like strangers as of now.

New Year, New Beginning

The year 2016 just bid goodbye.  It was an awesome year for all of us even though we have encountered lots of problems, trials and difficulties.  At some point in our life we wanted to give up and stop moving, but the determination to go on with life no matter how difficult it is, made all of us surpass the trials in life.  The year 2016 is a tough year to our family.  I can say that our faith, strength, and patience were tested.  Thanks to God for the strength and focus mind He has given to us.  We are able to find ways on how to embrace the trials and difficulties we faced.

The year 2017 just sits in.  New year and new beginning for all of us.  We welcome the year 2017 with a blast and praying that this year would be a blessed year for the family and to all the people in the world.  We just have to continue what we are doing and improve it for the better future.  As for myself, I am thinking of starting a new business (small one).  I am not getting any younger, I have to think of something fruitful for this year.  I will still do what I am doing and do the things that makes me happy.  I hope and pray that I start the new year with new beginning.  For better me and wiser me.  Amen!

Hope I make her feel better

In life we do make bad decisions, commit mistakes, failed, succeed, and many others.  These experiences is a good teacher because we learned from it.  We can use our bad experiences to do better.  Stand up and strive harder.  These are the things that makes life more challenging.  It is not easy I must say.  There are times that we want to give up and back out.  But giving up and backing up is not a good option either.  Instead of doing it, we have to challenge ourselves to continue the journey till we reach to our destination.  Which is to achieve our goals, dreams, and ambition in life.

These are the things that I shared to a friend who is seeking my advice.  She married young and have a son.  Her life is not easy, I know because marrying at a young is not a good decision, but as a friend I am just here to give my points of view based from what I have heard, read, watch and my experiences in life.  I am single but I know the difficulty of a married life.  Not all though.  *wink*  Anyways, since she is seeking my advice I give her my points of view, and possible solutions to her problems.  It is not easy though because I can feel her pain and struggle, but I see to it that I am able to eases the burden in her heart and mind.  I hope that I am able to make her feel better.  Also, hope that my advices gives her the peace of mind that married life is full of trials, ups and downs, misunderstanding, but at the end of the day communication is the key to make things smooth and a wonderful journey together.